
I asked two of the three members of Boston-based Girlfriends to answer some prompts, which they kindly did and are here for your reading pleasure. If you haven't had a chance to listen to them, I'd highly recommend it. Sort of reminds me why I got into punk rock in the first place. Their MySpace is here.
Benny:
"Music is....a series of noises played in succession to elicit a response from the player/listener. Some genres include pop (short for 'popular'), rock, blues, jazz, classical, etc. Then there are the subgenres. This could take days. We should stop right here. That's basically all you need to know. God invented Google so you could learn the rest just make sure you search for 'harsh industrial noise' and 'rocksteady' at some point. The part about a mutant warthog with a purple mohawk is incidental, but interesting.
If you can't make it to our show, that is unfortunate, it's like....Sweatpants in church. So depressing, you know? Like 'I just couldn't make the effort to pick a real outfit or buckle a belt' or whatever. You probably slept in those. If you're going to pull this off at all you'd better have a matching sweatshirt on. Or no shirt. And what if you get a boner? God will totally see it. Actually wearing sweatpants to church is kind of awesome.
Outside of music I....make it a point to do little else. But I eat four times a day or so, sleep an average of 6 hours for every 24, and picked up flossing recently. Flouride mouthwash and vitamin D softgels, too. So I'm pretty okay right now. Habits are a good thing to have, I think. I started smoking as a New Year's Resolution, but I quit soon after. I was disappointed in myself until I started getting all the high-fives."
Andy:
"Music is.... my favorite thing in the world although sometimes I need to take a break from it and give my ears some rest. Because of ear infections, I had tubes put into my ears several times as a child. That, combined with years of smashing cymbals with no earplugs is a quick route to tinnitus. But I am going to try to be better about all of this starting RIGHT NOW. It's difficult because the combined
experience of feeling yourself hit the drums while getting low thud and high crash blasted to your ears is so comforting. But I want to be able to hear my girlfranz for a long time so I am going to need to keep those earplugs in and start to use my imagination a little bit, to imagine what it feels like without the earplugs in. It's a hard thing, music is filled with so much imagination, it's quite incredible.
If you can't make it to our show, that is unfortunate, it's like...there are so many bands in Boston, and I understand that you may have gone out to see another band. It does seem like people are going out to see music much more these days, it's good for everyone to hang out and to constantly surround themselves with each other in the presence of music, even if every band isn't you favorite. Supporting bands
makes the bands better, it makes them feel as if they are not alone in playing music and being human. Most of our shows seem to be on Fridays and Saturdays these days,
which is convenient for most people. I am glad that I can always make it to our shows because our shows cheer me up, they give me something to look forward to. I think it is important to find something special, and for me that is music, and I love supporting others, and I love it that people support me too.
Outside of music I.... love to drive my stick shift car. I went to buy my car with my friend Paul a few months ago and when we showed up at the dealership, it hadn't opened for the day (it was relatively early on a Sunday). He knew that I couldn't drive stick shift, I had a friend take me for a few drives years ago, but never really learned. So we went for a lesson. Within an hour, I was in Harvard Sq,
jolting, freaking out. We came back to the dealership, they asked if I wanted automatic or manual, and Paul convinced me to go with the manual. So there you have it, like that. It's been a few months now, and I have days where I hate the thing and think I suck at it, but then there are other days where I just love the thing so much and I downshift into 3rd and I feel like I have done something special. The decision to get a stick shift represents something for me: it is me making a decision and dealing with the ups and downs, but ultimately realizing that it would be fine either way."

